Hello! At this point I (M24) am sure that dating older women (above 40) in India is almost next to impossible. Although, I go on dates with women older than me but I haven't been with anyone above 33. I have tried every dating app and the gyms in my city but no luck, sometimes it feels like they don't exist or aren't single at all. Along the way, I have made close friends with many women, all above 40 and 50. Some I know from gym and others from my residential society area. They are normal auntys who enjoy my company, and I love to make them laugh and treat them as my friends. They hang out with me in groups and sometimes individually. I often get invited on shopping trips, causual hangout or cultural fest/occasions. They don't shy away from taking on any topics with me, I appreciate that they are comfortable around me and reciprocate the same. We sometimes have deep discussions and other times just silly jokes and laughs. I won't deny or hide the fact that I really wish if I could have some sort of intimate relationship with any one of these charming women, but I know the limitations and lines that shouldn't be crossed. It feels like a bitter sweet journey, but at the same time I also feel lucky as I know most Indian guys don't even get what I have and really cherish my friendship. Although I feel dispirited, I am hopeful that someday I'll meet someone and have a real CnC relationship.