Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is a relationship style where all partners agree to be in romantic or sexual relationships with more than one person. ENM relationships are characterized by open communication, consent, and respect. Another variation of this would be Polyamorous relationships.

Many Americans are finding that adding safe respectful spice to a relationship is Very Benefical. Such a relationship is based on the essential Trust-Bond between a couple. I found being jealous was a green eyed monster that never ended well. If I can't trust my partner to be out of my sight, It's not a good healthy benefical relationship. I told my gf's from the start, I am not looking to replace you. I just want the spice of variety and variations in stimulation and response from different lovers.

The Friendly Respectul "I Like You" vib has to be there for best results. Knocking off a piece of ass or a "just a fuck"....lacks so much depth, warmth, sincerity and mutual pleasuring. It's so much more wonderful and fun, if we laugh, joke, smile and ask what can I do to turn you on more?

Several couples over the years were trusting of each other and me....after months of play sessions, enough to allow me to "date the wife". Dinners, Movies, Spending the Night-with or without loving hubby. It is a delicate balance to enjoy the playsessions and keep it Friendly. I never mentioned love or "come away with me"...which is the number one killer of such rare relationships. I liked n cared for each wife/husband as close friends. And as such, Friends never betray or abuse another Friends Trust.

Secure couples where hubby is unable to sexually pleasure the wife....will "outsource" that one aspect to assure her continued health n well being. Denying sexual pleasure is like saying rain doesn't grow flowers. When the couple finds an intelligent courtesous respectfull "outsource".....Everyone wins. Several of my previous couple husbands would go fishing n hunting with me.