Context- Me and this girl have seen each other for a total of 3 dates. We’re long distance (1 state apart). All 3 we’ve met in-person and on the third date she met me halfway (2 hour drive). All the signs are there in regards to interest.

I’ve done Corey’s methods to a tea, with using text for definite dates, giving her space for 3-5 days and etc. EXCEPT for the hookup part in “Hangout, Have Fun, Hook-up.” (We’re both devout Christians so hook-up is out of the picture).

Current Situation- After the third date I waited 4 days (the date was on Sunday) to reach out to her and this is what I texted:

Me: Don’t you leave for Denver tomorrow? (She’s going there for a trip with friends for a weekend)

Her: I do!

Me: Gotcha! When are you usually free on weekdays? I'm busy next weekend, but I'm down to talk over the phone to catch up and hear about your trip!

It’s been 2 days since I sent this. My question is should I have waited after her weekend trip to reach out to her or did she just lose interest out of nowhere? What are next steps from here? Any tips are appreciated. Thanks!