Who I Am:

I’m a 36-year-old trans woman. Poly and married (dating separately) and doing the ENM thing for almost two years now without a problem. Also a parent, but at this point my child is a teenager so they require less of my time which is part of why my wife and I started poly. I’m a giant nerd with interests like board games, MTG (casual commander) and video games. I also like all the regular things like television (Tuca and Bertie lately), music (Lydmor lately) and films (horror lately). I’m a huge writer and did research/writing for over a decade as my career. These days I’m finally getting back into fiction writing. Reading is also very good with both some fiction and some history. Mostly like learning about the history of labor struggles or American imperialism. I go out and do stuff every once and a while, but more often just a homebody.

What I’m Looking For:

I prefer femmes. That could mean cis woman, non-binary or trans. I’m looking for someone with some similar interests as me, both vanilla and kinky. This may be a hot take but I don’t actually care if you can have deep conversations or not. In my opinion, long-term relationships are held together by your ability to have the everyday conversations with wit, empathy and support for your partner, and how good you are at saying smart stuff is not that important to the above actually.

Kink Stuff:

I’m a submissive and am looking for someone who likes toilet play. Roleplaying being forced is hot every once and a while, but honestly I am just turned on by scat and there’s an honesty in not hiding that during play. Being dommed while doing it is great, or just doing it without the D/s is also great. My other favorite kinks are ageplay and hypnosis (I admittedly have some weird ones). I also enjoy all the classics as well, such as most D/s stuff, bondage, humiliation etc.