Well, yes, technically I'm doing long-term edging and denial so that's part of this equation, but for the sake of this post, it's beside the point. :D

Because the thing is that I just really enjoy having these talks. Like genuinely I had a couple of really nice conversations/discussions regarding everything from politics, through ideologies, all the way to why someone made the decision that women don't need pockets... And to top all that, there's usually that hint (or sometimes flood) of sexuality over the whole thing. And I guess that spice just makes the conversation so much more enjoyable.

Now, I do consider myself a feminist, I do believe in equal rights and opportunities. I am a strong, capable woman, with a good career, a rather masculine one at that... However, I also enjoy being tied up and being submissive when it comes to my private life. I am also rather right-leaning when it comes to politics, and to be fair I'm way too fascinated with a bunch of weird things.

My point is that I started to treat this subreddit as a pool of interesting people, from whom I like to pull for... Well, honestly more just a fun, sexy little conversation than anything else. I guess I just find it sexy and captivating when people can make an argument, and make sense. And if they can even defend their point... That is the true turn on :D

So to summarize: Am I a feminist? Yes. Will you convert me? No. Am I here to have a nice chat? Absolutely. Will I get offended in case of a playful yet somewhat degrading tone? Absolutely not. Will I get turned on by it? That's classified...

For those of you to whom that sounds good: My name is Tilde, I'm 38 years old, I have a pat cat and dog who are in a sort of love-hate relationship, I'm currently a bit tipsy on wine, and it's 22 degrees in the middle of the night so I'm not wearing pants if that's important information for you.