Hey! I'm a 36 year old lady from Connecticut looking to connect with others in the area. I work at home full time as an Information Architect & Content Strategist and I am really bored and I need to make some new friends.

Took up some cool new hobbies, like kayaking, painting with gouache, board game making, audiobooks, world-building, solfeggio frequencies, meditation, and loose-leaf tea making... transitioned into an awesome plant-based, cheating-vegan life which has been amazing!! Lost 50 lbs from that and hiking and just general all other pick-yourself-up-ism.

Anyway, I've been a lot more active and have decided to stop being a hermit and want to get out of the house. I want to meet people. I want to make time. So... help me out a little? Send me a message and maybe we can see if we vibe?

Things I can really fucking relate to: stoicism, survivalism, anything outdoorsy like hiking, backpacking, kayaking, paddleboarding, canoeing, rock climbing, camping, tracking, bushcraft, youuuu fucking name it. I've got a crotchety little wood nymph soul and nothing soothes me like wilderness, smoking meat, philosophy, grad school bullshit, corporate bullshit, hip hop, funk, psychedelic rock, punk, heavy metal, emo for lifeeee, Dave Matthews Band, guitar guitar guitar, sports... And anything competitive really ...love me some fucking kickboxing, hate cardio but I'm trying to love it, weightlifting, yoga, all that. I guess this is working out now lol. Baking, gin & tonics, mezcal, chemistry, anything astrophysics, cosmology, spectroscopy, nuclear science, cartography, geography, I'm gonna stop here and just say huge fucking nerd it's easier.

I've already said too God damn much but I figured I'd be honest. I'm looking for a friend with benefits/FWB. But truly a friend with benefits, not a hookup, or anything like that. I'm in a progressive circumstance and I want someone who can truly be my best friend who I hang with and do cool platonic shit with but who also knows that I'm a ridiculous flirt, too honest, and far too direct sometimes😂 But I also love to chat and go deep and meld minds and find out what makes people tick, why they got that way, learn cool new perspectives and insights on lives I've never lived or could never have access to. I'm passionate about human experience and connection and I, unfortunately, happen to be a bit of a romance-addicted robot too. And I'm looking for someone who not only understands that but respects it, and who just wants to vibe and have a good time.

I could blab forever and I'm always doing that when I make posts so if this energy, or vibe or message hits you in any way, shape, or form.. (maybe not "ANY" lmfaoooo) then send me a message. I usually like to talk for a week or so before meeting up, can't be too careful these days 🙃, but I DO want to meet up. I hate hate hate hate being on my phone and I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind talking everyday but also who wants to meet up and do stuff in person sometimes. 🥳🥳🥳

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