I love to teach about the lifestyle. Early on in my life I had some amazing older partners who helped me maneuver through the challenges in the lifestyle. I really fell in love with teaching things at the fetish center. I'm looking for someone open minded and who wants to explore things in the lifestyle. I have presented at many events on the east coast on different topics about the lifestyle.
Years ago the lifestyle was built on respect, trust and communication. The issue is the newer people into the lifestyle don't understand about the little things. Today the international kink community terms them Vanilla Invaders. With the release of 50 Shades of Grey and other movies on fetishes have become more common. Over the last three years the organizations that introduce more fetishes into the lifestyle have focused on more vanilla ones. Like hair color, kissing, chocolate, freckles and oral. They have done this to make it more acceptable for everyone but with the influx of new people has come the lack of understanding of the lifestyle.
I do enjoy exploring the needs, wants and desires of my partner. I do have experience and enjoy the lifestyle. I don't view the lack of experience as an issue. I think learning slowly and understanding the fetishes completely is something important. I was taught over time exploring 1 or 2 things at a time was the way to learn. Life is too short not to smile everyday. I will always try to make you smile and have fun. Exploring the mind is as important as the body. I'm very patient and kind but I'm not looking for an online setup. I travel all around CT.
I look forward to hearing from you
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