I want to share this with you guys because I am slightly a prude when it comes to nudity at certain facility. At one location, some of you going to jump down my throat for saying this but I wear a towel in the hot tub. The reason because of the environment of the location if majority wear towel but don’t wear swimsuit than I will wear a towel so i have an “excuse” to go naked per-say. This location majority go naked hence why I prefer this location but in the same breathe this location has rarely has cruising incident.

The downfall this location has elite members that don’t have much of diversity! I am the only black guy at this location that go here regularly there will be occasion some that will try it out but don’t come back. Of course, majority of the members drives a Ranger Rover to Mercedes so a lot of the members carry their towels or its wrapped but toss it when going into the hot tub.

The proudest moment…for me being the only black guy at this elite location. I tended to not be naked around other members because insecurities issues but today I ended up boldly walked out of the hot tub naked.

As this older gentlemen was with me in the hot tub, I normally would never get out of the hot tub to start the jets. I would wait for them or bystander that is near the button to push it. Now if they ask me I would shyly grab a towel before coming out of the hot tub than press it than don’t return back into the hot tub. Today, flew out of the hot tub and ran to press the button because I volunteered to but to my surprised. He was admiring my body as I walk back I noticed no eye contact or gesture of thank you but zero in on my penis.

Normally, I would be very uncomfortable if anyone stares at my junk but at this location I wasn’t. Here is why, majority of the members are older, straight and conservative so they relax in the hot tub, sauna or steam room its 🤬quiet (they take it serious). There are times people engaged but its very minimal. In the hot tub, you will only see two members at a time if third walks in than so someone will leave. The hot tub can fit 7 people and if you try to engaged its one word answers.

So the older gentlemen that hyper focus on my penis I knew I was in a safe environment, meaning I knew he wasn’t try anything in the hot tub. I guess the exhibitionist side came out that day because the second time the jets went off at the point he was at the sink and he turned to see me walk out of the hot tub. I had a chub and he noticed than respectful walk back to the showers…

At any location, it’s their cue to take action but he didn’t. He respect my boundaries and I was able to drop my towel as he glance at my direction. He gave me a head gesture as he left as i did the same to let me know he was leaving not once did I felt disrespected but admired. I finally noticed the difference therefore i found my confidence.