Back in April, I was in the hot tub with these two gentlemen but only one tried to sexual assault me. So I was doing something that my attention wasnât aware of this guy that he would occasionally would sit down than move to the edge of his seat than kneel down into the hot tub. So the water would be up to his neck and occasionally some people do this but the red flag (that I ignored) how close he was to me. Now this hot tub isnât huge so the capacity is 7 people and majority of the time people gravitate to the jet that is farthest away from the hot tub. So the two older guys where on the other side of me so I am in the middle. The guy that kept kneeling into the hot tub brush his hand onto my outer knee I apologized thinking i was too close to him so I moved closer to the other guy than I proceed (I think i was reading something that was left behind in the hot tub) whatever I was doing.
The second time, it was my inner knee so I moved again but this time the second guy already left the hot tub to get water than came back (this happened 10 mins after the first time)
The third time, he attempted he tried to reach his hand up my boxer shorts but I assume the jets was hard to see that his fingernail pierce into my skin that I hollered âWTF!â âŚhe moved so fast out of the hot tub that i think he thought i was about to punch him. I never seen someone move so fast that it dawn on me what he tried to do
Here is the sad part, I went to the management downstairs to tell them the incident, they basically drilled me questions on âwhy didnât you do this or thatâ:
The first question, âWell, honey, why didnât you used to phone in the locker room to call the front desk?â We would of sent someone upstairs right away. She than to asked âIs he still upstairs?â After I said, âI donât know think so because he ran out of the hot tub after I holleredâ
She literally raised up both her hands and rolled her eyes, âWell, we canât do nothing about it!â Than the other two employers overhead the conversation and wanted to know what happened. So I thought maybe I will get some type of supportive feedback from the other two but they wanted to know the specific of the incident than asked questions like: âSo the first time he brush you, why didnât you leave the hot tub?â âPeople arenât suppose to wear towel in the hot tubâ (both of the gentlemen were wearing towels) âWhat wear you wearing?â âThe second time, he touch you wasnât a red flag?â (At this point, they thought it was a laughing matter)
After that, the management didnât take my incident serious but put on the blame game on me like I had ways to avoid this incident. ..(Pt.2 on seen these guys yesterday since the attempted sexual assault)
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