I F25 am fed tf up with my parents. My parents have been married for over 20 years but when I was young had an awful divorce that lasted 7 years,starting in 2006. My parents are both addicts but my mom was more high functioning than my dad. They have both done wrong and created a rough home to grow up in but they got back together (2013) in my eyes because my dad got cancer for the third time. The odds weren’t great and imo my mom thought he was gonna die. They got back together and my dad has gone on to beat the odds 8 times. Yeah 8. As of now they hate each other. They’re both fucking bitter and it’s overflowing to the point where you can’t have a conversation with them. I’m surprisingly the most mentally stable in my family so rational conversations fall on me. I want to tell them to grow up. They are threatening to divorce again over my dad following a AI generated female storm trooper. Y’all I legit can’t make this up. It’s been 2 weeks and they won’t cave to each other and make up about it. My mom 54 is so mad she has moved out of their bedroom and refuses to check on my oxygen dependent dad who often takes his mask off in his sleep, wouldn’t take him to the doctor when he had a 103f fever when he can’t even take a Tylenol due to the amount of meds he’s on. My dad won’t speak to my mom and truthfully I don’t know all of the details of their argument but I know he definitely called her a miserable bitch and he called him a hypocrite to his faith so it’s like a emotional war zone in there. It takes me back to being a kid and I hated it so much which is where my issues come into the present, my mom watches my 2yr/m while I work. I’m uncomfortable with the attitude being brought around while he’s there and them acting so immature in general. I’ve always had to parent them but this feels like it could be a step too far or the only thing that keeps them from blowing up.

My family sucks, cousins help me.

P.S y’all could drop the hottest album of 2025 stop playing with us, I hear you Maddie.

Comments and suggestions welcomed or happy to answer questions for clarification im honestly in need of some advice