Hi everybody. I am 44, straight white male from Central Ohio. I met my ex-wife when I was 22, and she was originally my sub. We fell in love, had a kid, had a few family tragedies along the way, and for the last 14 years or so we have been on auto pilot. I was always faithful even though I still had all of these urges, I cared more about her mental health and just trying to make things better in our relationship then I did about reaching out and acting on my impulses. Divorce paperwork has been signed, it's difficult, but I am so beyond ready to start living my life again. Keep in mind though I might not be immediately ready to jump into a long-term relationship.

Me physically: 5'11, big stocky guy but not gross or anything lol. White (I'm comfy with all races). I'm 44 (your age doesn't matter so long as you are older than 18, age gaps can be fun but we do need to connect on a deeper level; I also absolutely adore older women). Long gray/brown beard, shaved head, glasses. I have met people that thought I was very very attractive and I'm sure more than a couple people have said "yuck". Lol it's totally OK people like what they like and there's nothing wrong with that. I am happy to share pictures and I hope you are as well some attraction is definitely important.

Kinks: I am mentioning this because I am a sexual person and ultimately I would like a sexual relationship even if it's online but sex isn't the most important thing I'm also happy to make friends and just have people I can talk to. CNC, DDLG, BDSM, free use, light humiliation and degradation (I'm a Daddy Dom, so I would only tear someone down if I also built them up with aftercare and a lot of affection), somnophilia, roleplay, public, etc etc.

Limits: Anyone under 18, scat, excessive blood. I am extremely respectful of limits. This whole dynamic is based on trust and mutual respect. There is not a single kink I have that I wouldn't drop in a heartbeat for somebody that I care about.

Other stuff: I love the Grateful Dead, music in general, I'm not much of a gamer but I used to be when I was a kid and I occasionally get on now as well. I love football, fantasy football, amusement parks, being outside, long drives, long walks, piña coladas and getting caught in the rain, and all that fun stuff. I don't really know immediately what's gonna happen, I know that I am over my old relationship And ready to at least put myself out there.

If any portion of this sounds interesting to you, feel free to message. We can chat and see what happens, only one way to find out right. Thank you for reading my long ass message, and even if we don't chat, good luck finding whatever you're after.