LONG POST. I’m sorry in advance.

Plenty of my pics on profile. I’ll be in Boulder this upcoming Thursday and Friday only (10th and 11th) for work. I like to get out and do a little nature walk and enjoy the sights wherever I go.

I’m 6 foot tall, about 180 lbs, shaved head and face. Lots of tattoos too. I’m a “professional” whatever that even means. I’m well groomed and take pride in my cleanliness and overall hygiene. I’m vaccinated, snipped, and disease free. I have papers to prove this. I am immunocompromised and this is where I am picky with people. Not that I have a STI related immune disorder, nothing like that at all, but I take medication that suppresses my immune system so I have to be careful. I appreciate it if you understand this before messaging me.

Basically I’m looking for someone to maybe go get some food with, or go for a walk. If after we chat here, and if things are nice hanging out, maybe we can go back to my hotel and make out or have some sexy play time.

I am in no rush to have an orgasm. I can do that myself. I’m not looking for someone that isn’t interested in getting to know me at least a little bit before anything happens past talking.

Look, I’m not special. I don’t have a gigantic dick, I don’t have big muscles, I’m not burly or a manly man. I won’t pretend to be something I’m not and I won’t talk a big game like I’m going to blow your mind. I just want to have fun with a sane, kind, compassionate and considerate human.

I am a gentle dude, always have been. I like yoga, practicing breath work, and in general living a calm life. Hobbies are hiking, skateboarding, rock climbing (I’m new), disc golf, and other general outdoor activities. I also love to veg out under the blankets and watch tv all day. I’m vegetarian and will gladly talk about food and what I’ve eaten earlier in the day or what I want to eat tomorrow while eating dinner. I’m not a “go getter”. With my illness, I have to look at every new day with understanding that what I want to do is not necessarily what I can do. It’s all good. I’ve been chronically ill for 24 years, so it’s nothing new.

As much as I enjoy sexy fun times, I am still picky with the type of person I’m into. I am bisexual, with a stronger preference for women. I won’t bother listing the type of woman I like because I just am girl crazy. Cis or trans. I’ll just say that I do enjoy a confident chubby woman a bit more.

Guys though, I’m probably too picky. I don’t like pushy guys and I do not like older guys. I like younger, skinny, more “fem” and overall gentle, kind of like myself. I am NOT into chubby guys, dad bods, muscles, facial hair, lots of body hair. Basically I’m describing myself but younger. Maybe it’s a familiarity thing? Maybe I need to unpack that more… I digress.

I don’t drink alcohol, ever. I don’t do hard drugs. I’ll take a low dose edible at the end of the day to help me sleep but never get high. I’ll take some psilocybin every year or so but that’s it.

I am polyamorous. I have a girlfriend. My girlfriend has a husband. I care about these people and will not compromise their health and safety for the sake of my being horny.

I know this is a long post but I like to make my intentions clear. I don’t like the short back and forth chats.

If you’ve made it this far, congrats. I appreciate the thought. If my post resonates with you, that’s wonderful. Send me a message with a description of yourself.