Hey everyone, I’m curious about something that we’ve encountered a lot recently. My wife and I are exploring the hotwife lifestyle, and we’re pretty laid-back about how we approach things. We prefer meeting in public for the first time without any pressure or expectations of things going further right away.

For us, it’s about building a connection and seeing if there’s chemistry before deciding to take things further. But, it seems like a lot of guys are only wanting to jump right into things, and sometimes, suggesting a casual meet-up to feel things out first can be met with frustration or disinterest.

I get there are a bunch of horny dudes on here, but if someone has expressed that their goal is to find a couple to play with on a regular basis, what’s wrong with that initial meet and greet? I don’t get it. I know I’m biased on this, but I also feel like my wife is worth the wait. I’ve seen what she’s like when she’s really comfortable and into someone, but that doesn’t ever happen right away for her.

Is this a common experience for other couples?