I'll explain what I'm hoping to find so I have a chance of getting what I want and everyone is on the same page. If this is too many words for you, we probably wouldn't get along, anyway.

Bi 53 yr old on the DL, masculine and straight-acting, looking for a local well-equipped guy who wants to be serviced and worshipped. I used to usually have a couple of buddies who would let/"make" me suck or jerk their dick when the girls weren't around. I miss that.

Me - 53. 6ft. 190lbs. Bearded. Short grey hair. Average desk job dad bod. Moderately hairy. Intelligent, DISCRETE, laid back, geeky, enthusiastic. 6 inches cut. Kinda sub with guys.

You - over 30. Bigger than average dick. Any race. Masculine and straight-acting. Any body type - I like average guys and bellies as much as guys who look like pornstars. Be clean, sane, disease free, and DISCRETE.

What I want to do - I can host some week and weekend days when I have the place to myself. I'm ONLY looking to suck and jerk and service and worship your big hard dick, NO reciprocation wanted at all. You wanting my dick or me to be naked or whatever spoils the fantasy that you are straight for me.

I like cocks over 6 inches, especially thick ones. Masculine guys. Hairy guys. More dominant guys. Role Playing (so long as I get to be the one who eventually services you). Verbal guys. Talking dirty. Jerking to porn with a buddy. Suits, jeans, boots, bikers, blue collar, uniforms, tats, bears.

I DON'T like pain, getting fucked, BD/SM, or TOO forceful guys (there's a wide landscape of play where you are more dominant without scaring the crap out of someone or making them uncomfortable).

GF knows I'm that I'm bi but not that I'm looking for this. She isn't a part of it.

Ideally - you show up and we watch some porn and talk about it. Maybe we have planned role play that you make me, or that I convince you to let me, or whatever. I get to/am told to feel you up and service you. (RP isn't necessary, tho)

Hope to hear from someone. I've been dying to get my hands and mouth on a nice cock. We chat first, then meet. Ideally, I'm looking for a local FWB.