We were so close! After 3 years out of the lifestyle, my wife was finally ready to meet someone again. We got contacted by a single male on Kasidie who really piqued her interest. And when I say "out of the lifestyle," I mean she was ready to be done for good. But this guy seemed perfect for her: attractive, fit, respectful, not pushy, kinda new to the LS but with some experience. I showed her his profile, and her face lit up in a way I hadn't seen in a while. Even better, he lives just 10 minutes away—ideal for scheduling meet-ups.

We made plans, and my wife felt great about it. Then, last minute, he tells us he's moving out of state this weekend and doesn't want to waste our time. Son of a...!

We've been in this lifestyle long enough (started back in 2010) to know people can be flaky. I don't think he was, but it’s still disappointing. Surprisingly, my wife is actually bummed about it and said she'd be open to meeting someone else if we can find a similar match.

So, here’s what we’re looking for:

• Single male (not married)
• Reasonably fit
• Lives near Broomfield/Westminster (within 10-15 minutes is ideal)
• Outgoing, not socially awkward
• Willing to meet in person and in public first
• Prefer straight, no bi (this is all about her)
• Not into heavy drinking or 420
• She tends to prefer white guys
• She’s not a size queen; 6-7.5" is ideal
• Stag/vixen dynamic, not cuck. Looking for a friend, not a bull

If you’ve seen Serenity Cox's videos, you know the dynamic we're looking for. Thanks to her, my wife is open to this idea again. I love sharing her like that and would love to find someone like this in our area.

I know this is specific, but if you fit the bill, I'd love to hear from you. Bonus points if you’re Scottish or Irish (huge Outlander peeps here).

Low-effort messages and dick pics will be ignored.

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