i am autistic, and i have borderline personality disorder (BPD). what this means is sex feels different for me mainly bc of the BPD.

i hate having bpd. it constantly feels like everyone perceiving me as overreacting or exaggerating when for me, everything feels so much more extreme.

it’s why neurotypical people are unable to empathize because they have never known emotions that are so strong they affect you physically. this includes sex.

when i’m filled with lust, i’m brimming with so much desire i can’t think straight. that being said, my thoughts become super divisive. everything is yes or no and good and bad.

so i think i should lay out what i am looking for in order for me to want to have consistent sex with someone. along with things that i’ll usually automatically say no to.

let’s start with the NO, I DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU:

• weed. so if you smoke it or consume it, you won’t vibe with me anyways.
• any and all drugs including shrooms.
• men who assume because i’m comfortable and confident in my sexuality it means that i’m easy.
• porn addiction
  
• men who can’t go at least 3-5 rounds minimum, we probably won’t have good sex. i like making a man cum as many times as possible while conscious my goal is always at least 8 that can bleed into the morning too.
• men who get post nut clarity or shame afterwards, there’s nothing wrong with having sex, work through your mental.
• men who don’t know what aftercare is
• men with anger issues

if you’ve made it this far send me the words “pink pokémon”

WHAT I WANT/LIKE: (this doesn’t guarantee sex)

• men with shaved or trimmed pubes. two main reasons, 1) irritation and friction, 2) more comfortable head
• men with cut cock
• men 6’4 and higher (i’ll immediately fold)
• men who enjoy touching, caressing, fondling
• during and after sex hydration (water, juice, etc)
• able to pick me up
• men who like cuddles and cockwarming afterwards
• men who know what a REAL WOMANS BODY LOOKS LIKE
• men who are genuinely kind and patient with me and passionate lovers