Mid 40s Asian Pacific Islander couple. I am 5’1 130 and he is 5’8 230 see profile for pics.

We are finally going. Lol. We have made plans before, but they always fell through. We are not swingers (100% vanilla) and this is a first for us. Can anyone give advice on what to bring like extra clothes or things like that? Not sure we will need it but I read that people bring other outfits to change into. Curious about that. .

With that said, how welcoming is the crowd? And what does the demographic look like? We are by no means models, and would like to hopefully meet others like us. There is a slight insecurity/anxiety I guess with anything new, but also a level of excitement to see the happenings is this environment.

We intend to play with each other and watch if people will allow it. It would be nice to have my first bi experience and I would love to watch him with another woman. But we are not in a rush and would like to see how things go. Hoping it’s a decent crowd and looking to have some fun that night

Also, is it like a dance club or just like a hangout type of environment? Should we arrive early Ike right when it opens or wait until 10-11pm to show up?

Hopefully we can get some insight from those with experience so we know what to expect. Looking forward to hearing your responses.