So if you don't admit you're codependent, you're in denial. If you do admit it, it's okay, it's not your fault, but likely some form of trauma or abuse you suffered. But you're ultimately in control. But it's up to you to fix it. But you're not broken. But you shouldn't feel bad for being broken or making mistakes, because you're admitting them. You shouldn't be relationship obsessed, but isn't everybody kinda looking for someone to share their life with? I mean yeah, be okay being alone, but that gets boring after awhile. And don't put up with abuse, but don't enable it, either. And trust that there is a plan, without worrying about anybody but you. Am I the only one thinking this is like... a way to sell books or something? It's like victim shaming for making people worry about others, which only increases your guilt that you worry about other people lol. Or am I in denial?