Lucky me, I've met some of the greatest oral top feeders over the years who totally get what I call the mind/mouth/cock connection and relationship. I used to say that oral tops rule the world and I still believe that. There are guys who just emit this bulge/cock energy and aura and people who are vulnerable (like me...) will do almost anything to have a chance to fall to their knees and suck them off. I first realized this in my fraternity house in college. There were a couple guys there who had embraced their phallic energy and knew that they could control things because of it. Of course, most of them were straight, but the bi or borderline guys loved letting me drain them and understood fully how much I needed to service in order to life a full, satisfied life. I love meeting new feeders, quality clean and cut guys, who understand how much power hangs thickly between their thighs.