Hey everybody I've been seeing my current girlfriend for 2 years I used the book 3% man and was able to attract her and start a relationship with her. After about a year into the relationship she stopped being affectionate and wanting sex, when I asked her about this she said her parents are not affectionate to one another and we've been together for a year and the only way she would have sex with me was if I got a hotel room. After the sex stopped she started to nit pick me more and more and berate me to the point I started becoming insecure and acting weak. I also want to note that whenever she gets upset she will spaz out and won't talk to me about what got her upset and will brush it under the rug and I will use Corey's methods to try to open her up and she'll start screaming at me or stone wall me, and also whenever there's an issue she's quick to tell me to brake up with her or that she doesn't need me. Now we are almost at the 2 year mark and I've started going back and reading 3% man and am on my 8th time and I'm realizing that over time she kept taking stabs at me one after another. I've decided to get back to working on myself and it seems to be having a positive affect on her as well like she seems more caring towards me and touchy with me when we were last together. I spoke to her yesterday about getting together to take care of an issue with her jewelry that I bought her and she was willing to come out even though it was her moms birthday but I told her we could wait till next day to take care of this and to wish her mom a happy birthday, and she liked the message and said "okay, I will". I havent heard from her since yesterday so im guessing it's a test and haven't reached out I decided to pursue the things that I want to do when I dont hear from her or have a date set with her. I'm not sure if I should reach out to see if she can go with me today or wait for her to reach out to me. Any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated sorry this is a long one.