Just a topic that popped into my head that I thought might be fun and interesting! Lately I've found myself getting into it more, whereas it was something I really wasn't too comfortable with in the past. I was very shy and reserved, and it really didn't come naturally, so any time a partner would want me to talk dirty it would feel very forced and be more of a distraction than anything (remember this scene from Friends? I know u/HurricaneKCatrina does! 😆 This is pretty much what it would be like https://youtu.be/-PXcIdzIafk). But my regular provider kinda got me to gradually loosen up about it. The first time she dropped a "daddy" on me during sex it threw me for a loop, but now I play right into it and even initiate it myself (it probably helped that we started smoking weed together at the beginning of our meetings, lol). Part of her secret that she revealed is that she has a whole vocabulary of dirty talk phrases she can dip into, so she isn't trying to think of something to say in the moment (this was one of my big issues), so now I kinda find myself doing the same. I'll hear or think of something and be like "Ooh, that might be fun to say next time!"

So how do you guys feel about the dirty talk? Do you find that it spices up the experience? Does it get you more turned on, or is it a distraction? Do you think ahead of time about things you might say, or do you just go with whatever comes naturally in the moment? How receptive do you find the ladies who you see to that sort of thing?

And to the providers out there, how do you approach dirty talk with clients? Do you just kind let the client establish the tone there and match his energy? Do you initiate it on your own to spice things up and maybe help move things toward the finish line faster? Or do you find that can backfire with clients who might not be into it?

Also what are some of the more cringe attempts at dirty talk that you've heard? I think that's one of the things that always made me hesitant about it because there can be a fine line between sexy/smooth and cringe as fuck. 😅