Mini vent: I am a SWer however I’ve only posted 2 personal pics on here & no verification/ links. But already I’m getting spammed by ppl who don’t fit the bill. These creeps swear we’re jumping at the chance to have random hookups. Spoiling “outside of sexwork” shouldn’t be an issue to ppl even if that’s sexwork by definition, they’re only mad when women get something. Sheesh, I can’t want a partner who provides even if I’m not hooking? An affair can’t be a whirlwind romance? My fuck buddies have done more for me than some of these husbands do year round, just saying. The courting stage is always gonna add up to less OR more than what clients spend, based on who you’re dealing with. I’m a little rusty with dating but I’ll be damned if I settle for less than what I’ve already experienced. (And I believe in chemistry being invaluable, not sex. So assuming you shouldn’t want to spoil someone you want to be INTIMATE WITH is so cringe to me. Let alone when it’s old, most likely ugly cheaters)