Swinger clubs, parties, or just hanging with another couple at home, are just a few of the ways you and your SO can enjoy swinging. What do you enjoy or think you will enjoy most when the time comes and why?
Both can be fun and I have participate in both small and large group activities. Once on a swingers cruise, I enjoy a non-stop wild romp of an evening being in the group room with a large group from just before midnight, to just after sunrise.
But large groups can be intimidating and not for everyone. While I have enjoyed a large group on more than one occasion, you most likely can guess from my other posts, that I would enjoy more a small group. But that also depends on how you define small.
I have never been one to lean toward the sex with strangers. I prefer couples I know well. But in the end, it can all be great fun!
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You bring up a good discussion point. People tend to look at swinging lifestyles as the only decision point for engagement in the activity. But there are actually a lot of complexities. We have a couple we regularly play with that are oral only. She loves sex, but wants to reserve intercourse for just she and her husband. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. We have friends who come to the lifestyle parties and only want to watch. We have been with soft-swap couples. We have been in small groups and we have been in crazy big orgies. He and I have learned to love all of these experiences. But that does not mean that they are a good idea for everyone. You have to find your own comfort zone.
Most important, you know what your comfort zone is. Too many don't realize where their comfort zone is until they find themselves outside of it.