While this sub normally caters to swingers. Every week I want to bring a new sexual topic and see how the community thinks it could or could not fit into a Christian lifestyle.
For the context of this conversation we will define it as: A cuckold is a man who gets turned on his watching his wife fuck other men. Cuckolding occurs when a married woman fucks another man with her husband's full knowledge and consent. She does it because it makes him hard as a rock and often because he is inadequate in bed. (Taken from urban dictionary)
What separates this from swinging is that the husband would not be engaging in any sexual activities with another woman. The husband may or may not be present during the activity.
This can happen for a variety of reasons. But primarily it happens when a husband feels his wife could have a better time with another man. There are humiliation aspects to the relationship. and as usual there is a wide spectrum of how extreme it can be.
I would love for everyone to voice their opinion’s in the comments. Also if anyone has any recommendations for future topics please dm myself with the definition of your topic and I will try to add it in future discussions.
Christians face "slippery slopes" every day. Being a Christian and someone who has been active in the lifestyle for most of her marriage... and someone who hosts and sponsors lifestyle events and parties, Cuckolding is a conflicting subject.
It is a behavior that I witness almost every weekend. I have had sexual encounters where my husband and I played with a wife with the husband present who preferred to watch and was incredibly turned on by it.
Where I draw the line is humiliation. Even when it is a turn-on. Christ taught us to love one and other as we would want to be loved. Treat others as we would want to be treated. And no matter the circumstances, humiliating a man because he cannot perform, it's good looking, is over-weight or whatever the situation may be is wrong (in my opinion).
Sex is a blessing that God provided to us all. Love and Marriage is not only a blessing but for some its a sacrament. I have had sex with too many men and women to count. But the one person who still rocks my world and who I still hold is my husband.
For the final note, he does enjoy watching me with a couple, and sometimes that is all he wants to do is watch. But not as a cuckold. Sometimes it because it is a pair of newbies who just want to have their first experience.
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