We are not swingers, and may never be, but we like to fantasize. Talking about other people having sex gets my wife so hot and bothered. We've had a very vanilla sex life (married for 22 years, I'm 47, she's 51), but she has had a major sexual awakening in the last 2 years. We've had more sex in the last 2 years than the previous 20 combined. Fantasy had been a major part of that. Thinking about couples more adventurous than us, thinking about them fucking in different places at work, sneaking around when offices are empty, and friend's houses, threesomes, sex in empty gyms after a work out, couples getting frisky in pools and hot tubs... all these thoughts make my wife so wet!

We want to know, what was your first nonmonagamous experience like?  How did you get involved in the LS?  Was it planned and discussed, or was it something that happened more spontaneously?  What was your best experience with another person or persons?