Well, Reddit users with lots of varying opinions, hi from a Christian married MF couple who are pretty good at communicating, have children, and enjoy sex!

Last January we started really opening up more and exploring 'marriage ' activities and lifestyles. Together. If not always on the same page, at least in the same chapter. Life though, as you might imagine, is busy and therefore we backed off a bit. Talking about swinging, meeting people, looking for people, all of it really took over there; and while it was hot, it was too much--our priorities got a bit 'out of whack.' To be clear: we haven't had sex with anyone other than each other .. we have read, prayed, talked--with each other and other people with swinging experiences, and met others casually. That 'backing off a bit' was good for us. Our Lord, then each other's whole health and our own, then our children: those things all needed to be set firmly ahead of any 'bonus' activities that we might add.

We are exploring again, and it is exciting; and we are a bit wiser and slower (and older, but we try to stay in good shape 😉), and we have hopes.

Wondered if any started similarly? And especially: we gather that once 'things start' they are pretty easily worked into the priority list just like other casual events such as date nights. Any discussion? Take care, everyone.