We were talking about my ex (I had just seen her because our daughter together had to go to the doctor and I was working) and that she invited me in when I went to get our daughter. She was wearing very little and was eyeing me up and down. That’s nothing new. I said I was waiting for her bend over and say take me!

My wife looks at me and says “is it even cheating when it’s your ex? Especially if you have a child together?”

That blew me away. My ex is getting out of a very bad relationship and struggling.

I’m wondering, is my wife thinking polyamory, or just keep the exes urges at bay? We have had some conversations about it, and I intend to have more, but outside input would be appreciated.