For YEARS I've been fantasizing about my wife (30... super hot... super friendly... works in our church office) having sex with other men. I've talked to her about it, told her it would be hot, asked her what type of guy she'd want... and she always just laughed it off. Turns out, about a year ago she started having in appropriate conversations with her boss and eventually it turned into oral sex. She hid it from me for a bit, but we've talked about it and healed and I'm still telling her I'd love to share her.

Then a few nights ago, she told me she'd like to give other guys BJ's, but only if I'm serious about being into it for real, and not just pretending or talking about pure fantasy. I gave her the green light, and I couldn't be more excited! We've already talked about how it would be oral only (both ways is possible, plus 69) but now we're needing to have conversations about all the details, so our communication and expectations are crystal clear. Here are the topics I know we need to cover before she starts hooking up, but I need you guys to tell me what topics I'm missing:

• Kissing
• Where he can cum
• Am I present
• STD testing
• Strangers only?
• Can I veto a guy
• Can he take pictures/video
• Can you send him pics
• Rimming
• Fingering
• Can you see him more than once
• How do you get out if you think there's danger
• Do we require a meet-up before