Proverbs is not considered biblical law, but it frequently referenced in modern times for great truths that can be applied today.

One such passage that has come up as an open rebuttal to ethical non-monogamy and open relationships is Proverbs 5. The specific section my wife and I are discussing is in verse 15-22. The chapter opens with advice on not succumbing to the temptation of an adulteress. Then it moves into describing how one should be satisfied with their own spouse.. drinking from her cistern.

“Drink water out of your own cistern, running water out of your own well. Should your springs overflow in the streets, streams of water in the public squares? Let them be for yourself alone, not for strangers with you. Let your spring be blessed. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe and a graceful deer— let her breasts satisfy you at all times. Be captivated always with her love. For why should you, my son, be captivated with an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another? For the ways of man are before Yahweh’s eyes. He examines all his paths. The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare him. The cords of his sin hold him firmly.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭5‬:‭15‬-‭22‬ ‭WEBUS‬‬ https://bible.com/bible/206/pro.5.15-22.WEBUS

The part that sort of convicts us is where Solomon goes on to say that streams from this cistern should not flow onto the street into the public square.. not letting strangers drink. It implies that we should not share.

I’m curious what others here might have to say about Proverbs 5.

Does it seem to be good general wisdom to only be with your spouse?

Do you think the context of swinging with good friends circumvents this wisdom since the other people being engaged with are no longer strangers?

Do you think this Proverb is only warning about an adulterous sexual relationship and nothing further?