My wife and I have been openly sharing a fantasy of her enjoying a younger man for the last five years of our marriage. We have been married for 25 years. Prior to openly sharing this fantasy any conversation about sex, desire, and fantasy was stifled by the impoverished, stifling view of sex and sexuality common in many churches. As devout Christians, internalizing this stifling view cut us off from intimacy. These last five years after nearly separating we have been on an amazing journey of intimacy. Last week we had the most amazing experience of our lives when we invited another to pleasure her with me. My wife is absolutely glowing. I am glowing. Following we have had the most intimate, deep, and beautiful (though at times tough) conversations. Our trust and love for one another has grown. We have thanked God for this blessing. It has been amazing and wanted to share.