Let’s be honest, there’s a certain level of dopamine that gets released when you run into that random hook up or when you get that last minute late night booty call. It’s exciting to fly by the seat of your pants….Sort of.

As we have traveled through this amazing journey we have realize, for many reasons, that we feel better in our mind, will, and emotions when we are more intentional. We have seen a dramatic difference in our mental health but more than that in our nervous system, in or reactions in our play. We have found that the more intentional we are the more relaxed we get.

It’s not so much the control of outcome as much as it’s being where we are for a reason, being with who we are for a reason, having the consent and agreement talks for a reasons. Touching people for a reason. So when we ask people who send us flirts or DM’s we always want to know their reason. What peaks their interest.

It’s part of our vetting process. In Shibari every line is intended, every knot in placed and tied intentionally. We practice the art intentionally. It’s the core of inclusive negotiations. We recently went to an intention centers play party and earned a lot.

We figured we would start a discussion.

What’s your perspective?