So we have some questions for you guys, but first, thank you so much for having this subreddit!

We're not into the lifestyle yet, but have dabbled some online before, but never anything in person.

Has anyone here just swung with other Christians? Not necessarily your same church or denomination, but Christian? Starting with a mutual worldview seems more beneficial, but who knows.

One of the biggest thing the regular swinger groups/sites say is talk to your friends, but that doesn't go over well in Christian circles. Even breaching the topic of sex is awkward, and heaven forbid you have an opinion about what the Bible says about it vs man's tradition. Has anyone had luck recruiting from their own friends?

Do people ever just start slow? Like same room playing? Seems like everyone we see just wants full blown swaps.

Sorry for the salvo of questions. Thanks for reading!