So we started watching porn last year and it’s opened the door to us wanting to kinda say fuck monogamy. It started pretty vanilla but lately it’s been pretty sex positive and explorative which has been cool.

Its challenging at times to reconcile our faith with this, but i think we've accpeted that to some extent we are moving on from a more dogmatic view of sex and commitment. Its been really healing from both of our pasts.

We’ve talked about making casual friends who we could watch porn with, idk exactly how to navigate making friends but we’ve been setting boundaries and just triple checking consensual boundaries right now.

It’s wild how in love I feel with her as we explore this. Any tips or advice?:)