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35M Really struggling with dating as a severely disabled guy.
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SweetWheelie is age 35
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I have a very bad disability called Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy. I've had to use a wheelchair for 25 years, because my disease makes my muscles extremely weak. I have a lot of chronic pain, and limitations. And I won't be getting better. Basically I've never really dated. I've been on a handful of dates, and really nothing has come from it. My last date was 10 years ago. I will admit that getting out and meeting people is not something easy for me, though I go to church 3 times a week, but there are exactly 0 single women that attend my church. I feel like I'm really strong in my faith, but there are times I severely struggle with loneliness and feeling good enough? Maybe it's me projecting my insecurities but I feel like women don't want to have to take care of a husband or just boyfriend ,which is fair. Which also makes me feel bad because I know I can't take care of and protect my partner like a biblical man should. Yes I think I could easily emotionally support and care for someone but the physical limitations give me pause. Really all I want is a good, kind woman to care for and love, and get the same in return, but maybe God just wants me to live in solitude? I guess I'm just here because I've been struggling for a while with really needing a companion. Does anyone have any advice? Thanks for reading.

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