Hi, I am 29 and looking for a Christian partner to spend the rest of my life with.

About me:

My personality: a positive outlook on life, outgoing, friendly and believes in learning from my mistakes and is always striving to change, adapt and become someone better.

At my core - I am someone focuses on Physical health and wellness, perseverance and dedication, goal oriented and mission focused. If I set my mind towards a goal, I try archive it even when all the odds are against me.

Adaptability - I am person who can adapt to any climate or living condition, hot or cold, rain or sunshine, bed or the floor it does not matter, I have developed resilience and find it easy to move from one location to another based on the job or changes in life.

Family: No siblings, just my parents.

Hobbies and Interest are wide and diverse. I just grab whatever opportunity comes and try my best to make the best out of it. A few examples are climbing a an active volcano to the summit and singing a song at the summit "your my little earthquake, oh let the earth shake". Heading out into the Ocean on a Jet Ski even through I cannot swim. Might seem reckless but everything is a calculated risk and I have never gotten hurt as I have been running and jumping on steep mountainous areas since I was a kid and subconsciously know where to step, jump etc.

Work: Marketing, where I am featured in some advertisements and can share a YouTube link where you can see me on video and how I speak as well as in Logistics in an Engineering firm at the moment. I did own a company once, yet, had to shut it down due to COVID-19 followed by a national economic crisis.

Smoking: Never have and never will as I saw my grandpa suffer in hospital.

Education: Two Diplomas in IT and Business, a Bachelors Degree in Business

House: I have my own

My Christian values and beliefs: I strongly believes in the Biblical values "sex after marriage", "no cheating" and "till death do us apart to love each other through sickness and health".

My ideal partner is someone who values a deep connection to love, trust, someone who will give me the opportunity to change and not ghost me or constantly threaten to leave me. Someone who understands that I will always try my best to improve as I have had many people online and one offline relationship where despite all the promises of "I will never leave you", "God has put me in your path for a reason" etc. End up doing the very thing in the end. Also, someone who believes in Christian marriage values yet of putting God first in the marriage, will not cheat and be loyal to one another. Someone who wants to create memories together and grow old together.

Financial Management: I write down all my expenses in a Notebook and budget accordingly. This method helps me know exactly what i spent on and what as such it does not matter to me in a marriage if both husband and wife share bank accounts or keep the finances separate. However, recently I have decided to upgrade to Google Sheets and use my Tablet instead to note down my expenses and also use Google Calendar instead to schedule events. A Diary feels a bit too bulky to carry everyday in my black leather satchel.

Preferred relationship style: Egalitarian as I was in one ridiculous relationship with someone 10 years older than me who was very strict, controlling and short tempered and I know what it feels like be under constant pressure and feel like I am constantly walking on egg shells. I have written more about this relationship I was in to highlight some positive aspects about me which I honestly did not know about myself.

My very first and previous ridiculous unusual relationship. I have copy pasted what I wrote in my previous post as I am not in a mood to think back about what happened and write a fresh version, so, here it goes;

START: People say I am crazy and I probably was, and I am sure I would have said the same before but as the saying goes "love is blind". I see it as an extreme test I went through where I found out far I was willing to tolerate and be how loyal and faithful I am to someone regardless of how that person's appearance changes when I truly love someone despite that fact that my mind froze for a few minutes when I first saw her as I was not expecting to see someone who looked so much older than the photos she she had sent me. It also revealed a lot of other aspects about me where I was patient when getting scolded for something small as arriving 10 minutes early (yes, early). In fact, I never argued back or scolded her as I never wanted to hurt her feelings in any way. This is of course is unhealthy and have come to realize that a relationship where both partners are equal is the way to go. Letting one partner take over completely and have the upper hand can create a lot of pressure and stress".

This previous relationship also showed me that one day when I marry someone, I will never leave even if that person ends up in a wheelchair, has paralysis on her face or anything, I will love her unconditionally no matter what. To be honest, this is a surprise to myself, as I always had doubts as to whether I am truly someone can be loyal and committed and this previous relationship proved that all my doubts were wrong. END

If you have read this far and would like to get to know me better, then send me a message and we can chat. Although, personally, I love voice calls as it helps create a deep connection in terms of emotion and just makes it easy to get the message across without misunderstanding.