Very often I'm talking to Christian women they have a list of desires before they get into what they might be able to bring to your life. And I do think that's fair I think we want to make sure that some of our sticking points are on the fore front of any potential relationships. Here are some common preferences from women I hear with some counter questions

I don't want to work/ I want to be a stay-at-home parent. Are you able to live within means or balance a budget or coupon?

You prefer to home school.Can you actually teach? Have you done any training to prepare for that life.

I want a man who can lead. Are you able to take directions well and accept when things don't go your way without major arguments?

I want a man who has zero female friends in their life. Are you able to accept the man who doesn't know how to properly treat a woman and teach them how you want to be treated?

These are just some examples. And there might be poor examples but I hope you get the gist of what I'm trying to say.

Booming nearest thing I can think of is how some women like men in the military but then they realize in the military are barely home sometimes and can't deal or help them with a lot of issues.