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I hope you're all well. I'm here to just ask for some friendly/ spiritual advice. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
My boyfriend and I shared a very strong and soulful connection, which was supported and approved by both our families. We prayed for this relationship and sought God’s confirmation through our desires, the approval of the authorities in our lives, and our circumstances. We were already discussing marriage and how we would go about it, but due to mental health issues (more of mental breakdown unrelated to our relationship), he felt it necessary to end things, primarily because he believes he can’t engage fully in our relationship and thinks it’s unfair to me. God has been giving me the strength to love courageously and patiently, and to not let my fears and doubts decide for me. Yet, I’m conflicted about what God might be telling me now.
I know I shouldn’t doubt what God has already confirmed in my heart through His word, but I’m seeking wisdom and guidance.
Thank you so much in advance
Not enough information on mental health struggles but it seems you love him. If you have committed to him then does this matter? Consider waiting and supporting. Good practice for marriage. You both will need to sacrifice for eachother. If this will compromise or hurt you move on. It seems the relationship is already determined. You both love eachother. Keep in mind that culturally marriage was carried out in different ways than our current day.
You must take care of yourself to love others but remember if we focus in the moment what to do it is easier than trying to live a bunch of rules. The greatest command is to love
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