Yes I know I’m limiting myself to a dating pool the size of a glass of water, at this point IDM being single, less drama. I was close with a former male friend/we both liked eachother but due to circumstances we had to break up. He was, I don’t know the correct word but think 1950s views on life. Kind of like the male equivalent of a “trad wife”. Being a trade wife would be my idea of literal hell.

He was horrified at the idea I wanted to work in a male dominated industry etc and most of the other male frens I’ve spoken to are kinda like that (they’re from a culture that I speak as my second language) so maybe it could be a nationality type thing.

Idk I know I’m rambling just does anyone else 😭feel in the same boat