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This happened about a year-2 years ago outside of a Five Guys. Now, if anyone know Five Guys, stuff is expensive.
There was a homeless man outside the plaza begging for money. He had no shirt, absolutely demolished sweatpants, no shoes or socks and unfortunately looked absolutely filthy. I was 24-25 and had my 2 year old son with me. All I could think of was if my son was to ever be in a position like that. As we finished our food and were walking out of Five Guys, the older gentleman was sitting on the bench outside the restaurant talking to himself. Before I could even say anything to him he asked me if I could give him money. I told him I didnât have any cash but I could buy him food. Mind you that I thought this was a perfect lesson for my son and a great experience of helping someone in need.
The man looks at me and doesnât even hesitate before saying âoh yeah, get me 2 double patty burgers with bacon, large fry and 2 chocolate milkshakesâ.
Man, I just froze. In my head I pictured myself spartan kicking this man in the middle of his chest for such audacity (sorry for my dark humor) but gee man what the hell lmao. After like a 5 second pause I said I got you on a burger, a fry and a large drink. He also paused and itâs like if he thought about kicking my ass and said âalright.â So I turned around, explained to my son what we were doing and heâd ask me questions. After $23 and 20 min wait, I had the food and I gave it to the funny guy. If I remember correctly he did say thank you but a âI didnât ask for thisâ sort of thank you.
In conclusion, I was sort of bothered by this experience but never stopped helping someone in need when I could. Matter fact, every time I have, I feel like I receive ten fold.
Just because he has poor social skills / wasnât appreciative doesnât mean he didnât deserve your help. We should help others who are in bad situation because we should, not for praise and gratitude. He may have seen an opportunity to get enough food to last the day and in survival mode / likely MH or addiction issues didnât possess the grace to ask politely. Great lesson for your son that all humans deserve kindness :)
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