So my girlfriend and I have been together for like 3 years, and her son is 17. Last Friday him and 2 of his friends was riding around after school and one of the friends yelled a racist comment out the window to someone walking. Anyways long story short I told the kid that he's just as bad if he's riding around d with stupid as people and doesn't check em on their bullshit. Guys ... how tf do I handle this without going overboard. Now to give yall some context I am white and Mexican mix along with a few other nationalities sprinkled in there, I am also adopted my adopted family is a mixed family with my father figure being African American I cannot stand to see or deal with racism because of everything that man taught me and to this day I have a similar reaction to it that he did so yes I lost my cool with the boy I was yelling and telling him everything that's fucked up with this but his mother can't understand or won't or whatever so now we're fighting..... guys help me out on this one wtf aside from beating some sense into him.