So long story short wife and I have been playing for over 6 years now but not usually here since it’s a small community and we prefer privacy. We find ourselves living opposite ends of the country due to work. We went from regular play dates and daily attention to absolute ground zero nothing. I’ve done well with it for months now but I’m slowly going insane lol. She has pushed and pushed for me to just go play but that’s new for me and outside my comfort zone (not her fault) but I’m quickly warming up to it. I’ve started going to the gym to get back in shape which has shot my libido sky high again. Now I’m very Bi so I have options however Grindr is always the same people and trolls, I got banned for being honest about being a pineapple on Tindr, SLS and FetLife are a money grab and so now I come to Reddit for a question lol where in the heck can I find local pineapples? Even if sex never happens like minded friends would be great lol. Is there a local club or something? Not trying to sound desperate just keeping some humor on the topic. 😊 I fully understand why single males are occasionally discouraged but now I find myself in their shoes 😂 Where do they go to play?

Edit: 36/6’3/ 6”/white/hairy/beard/chubby dad type, non smoker, barely drink. Not willing to share nudes right out the gate so don’t even ask. Also consent is super important so don’t ask about my spouse please.