I'm eventually looking for a serious long term relationship but I understand a lifelong commitment can be hard to promise or expect. So pragmatically speaking, we can start with a medium term horizon.

I like to start things fast and jump into the practicalities and feasibilitiies. And then, we can gradually develop that emotional connect and liking for each other as we talk but yet not rush into commitment until we are sure of our decision.

i could become your lifelong soulmate , provided you put in a bit of effort to understand me. I want to know you deeply from within. Do you have the courage to talk freely and be open about who you really are ? We all have shortcomings and issues. Acceptance is important.

Some Essential Info About Me

I was into software development but now do some stock trading . Self-employed. Not quite settled or established yet, but have enough to make ends meet.

I've never had a relationship, so you'll be my first.

Physical: height is six feet ** , I'm average build , slightly **muscular. Fair skin but not white, more like wheatish. Black hair. Cute. Overall a 5/10 in looks.

My Personality

I really like being a support and best friend to anyone, even if relationship doesn't work out between us. I believe in honesty, kindness, fidelity, privacy, empathy. I am straightforward in talks, i hate mind games, you don't need to be over-polite . Be blunt and straight with me please.

I think i'm assertive and i openly express how i feel and i want you to do the same. If you keep things bottled in, you'll be at discomfort. I want you to share your feelings & thoughts with me in a direct way and be as comfortable while talking , as if i'm your best friend.

I'm an ambivert because i feel introvert with people i don't really connect with and extrovert otherwise. My MBTI type (can't say if it is still the same) is ENTP.

My Interests and Hobbies

talking to people, listening to their issues and helping out, playing sports, especially those involving teamwork, i really want to collaborate eventually to solve problems the world faces. I am altruistic but self-centred too.

Who I’m Looking for

A woman anywhere on the Earth (if you can't relocate, i will ) who is of age 19 to 37 , any race. . I'm flexible about your views of god, life philosophy. religion etc and you should be flexible too. I'd prefer though that you follow a middle ground between a religious zealot and a hardcore nihilist. I do believe our existence and life has a purpose. But even if we don't align in our spiritual beliefs now, we may become like-minded as we talk and understand each other. We need to be open-minded and rational / logical.

I value love and intelligence above everything else, so even if you are depressed, don't have confidence in your beauty, have some mental health issues, are not able to get over a break up, still i'd like to atleast get to know you , be your friend and give it a chance.

I feel people who have faced failures are actually wiser, people who have experienced depression before are mature and those who have suffered loss in the past are more emotionally stronger. I'm looking for a loving heart and beautiful soul. Physical attraction is important , but not the main thing i look for.

I don't smoke, drink, take any drugs, and i'd prefer if you don't as well.If you do, I'd want you to put in an effort to abstain from that. But occasional indulgence is fine.

I also don't care about your income. You may be a college dropout , unemployed , that's alright. But i need you to be hard working and diligent.

In this overpopulated world, it doesn't make ethical sense for us to have kids. And a secondary reason is they deserve lot of time, attention and resources which we may not be able to provide with our life situations. I don't want to become the cause of why their upbringing may get messed up. That's why I'm childfree.

If two lonely people get together, we can dispel away the loneliness.

Communication

I am open towards voice/video calls too. You don't need to send a pic right away but you can ask for mine. I don't ghost people, i'd let you know if i wish to discontinue talking. I'm also transparent about whoever i'm speaking to. I will never cheat on you , lead you on , keep you as a backup option , etc. You are free to explore your dating options until we become exclusive. I encourage you to talk to other people too.