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I'm Looking for understanding, acceptance, empathy and good communication to create a lasting bond.
I think having someone in life makes it colorful. Gives us more strength and support to face challenges together and amplifies the joy we receive from indulging in fun activities together, like playing board games, watching movies etc, going on long walks.
We have so many needs as humans, touch needs, emotional needs, social needs. But still, so many people are either in fear of commitment and exploring their dating options, or waiting for that magical time / person when they'd contemplate taking the next step. If we don't expect perfection everywhere, we'll find contentment in the imperfections somewhere.
I don't want kids. If I create two lists thinking of reasons why I should have one and why i shouldn't have, the second list's reasons far outweighs the first. So, i decided it makes sense that I lead a childfree life, for overall contentment, not getting burdened by responsibility and not having the guilt of further overpopulating this world.
About me:
183 cms tall
I'm into trading in stock market. And have some programming knowledge as well. But I've been taking a break from work and hoping to first get settled emotionally and find a direction in life. Maybe later in life, I'd start a business probably. I do have some things in mind, like creating YT channel, or some website or maybe I could launch a restaurant because I do like cooking.
Somewhat Financially independent/Stable but not entirely. Depends on the definition and lifestyle.
ENTP personality type. But I believe it could change with time and mental state of person. I've been turning introvertish lately.
Politically, I just want to do something for the country and humanity that alleviates suffering of the weakest, poorest people out there and solves problems the world faces. But redistribution of wealth or giving subsidies is not the most efficient way.
I do believe in God but I don't believe in rituals, idol worship etc. So, not strongly religious. So, maybe I'm agonistic or mildly theistic.
But I do believe life has a purpose and we are here for a reason. It's not all meaningless. So I don't believe in nihilism. But then, there's not enough evidence to disregard people's nihilistic philosophies too.
I'm not sure between choosing vegetarian lifestyle or turning back to meat eating again. But I have abstained from non veg since several years because it hurt my conscience. I do eat eggs occasionally to meet my protein needs.
I do play football ocassionally. I love all sports. But needs a positive environment, infrastructure, and peer group to be consistent in it. I've realized our motivations get affected alot by our surroundings while our mindset gets framed based on our past circumstances.
Willing to relocate (Even if it's out of country) for the right person. But the feasibilities sound challenging, especially in terms of visa and costs involved. So I'd prefer someone from india but open to foreigners too.
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