Im searching, somewhere in universe, a soul connection with honesty and compatibility.

Im tall okayish looking Indian guy, not successful in career but have enough to support himself. I'm open to LDR and looking for true love. So, you can be from any city. I can relocate and we will be with each other in real someday. I am childfree . This world is already suffering a shortfall of resources due to overpopulation . I rather do something to add a positive value and meaningful contribution to this earth than bring more zygotes into it.

I want someone supportive of my challenges, fears, anxieties and I'd be the same for you. Someone accepting of my flaws which I can't easily change about myself. And I will have full acceptance and empathy towards your imperfections too. Let's improve ourselves together.

I want to talk. It gives me hope, happiness, dispels away my loneliness. I want to develop that connection and bond. Eventually, though, I'd like a relationship, if it's possible. I understand everyone has requirements or things they look for in a partner and no one should compromise on their expectations. And that's fine totally.

If you are someone who enjoys conversations and the process of getting to know each other and have plenty of time like me, then do hit me up for a chat and let's start slowly.

Otherwise, if you are someone who is usually running busy, then just ask me for the list of shortcomings I may have or summary of essential facts about me. I'll try my best to save your time from getting wasted in futile conversations. Or alternatively, just send me an elaborate list of the traits, qualities, and aspects you are seeking in a potential partner and I'll let you know if I can / can't meet them.

My personality is actually quite simple but it may appear complicated on top and I'm keen to know what's yours like in depth. I want you to be expressive about your issues, feelings, things concerning you, things you wish for.

My views on relationships :

Loving is different from being in a relationship. And being in a relationship is not always being in love.

It's possible that 2 people love each other deeply, but aren't in a relationship for reasons such as incompatibility , feasibility. The inverse is also possible, that 2 people enter into a relationship , out of sheer convenience, co-incidence, circumstances or compatibility but are not actually in love.

Love is acceptance, when we accept the person with all his flaws for who he is , and when we in turn are confident that we'd be accepted and loved too and hence don't have to adopt a fake appearance or try to show us as someone we are not, to get acceptance. But it also involves us putting a serious effort to fix our shortcomings and improve ourselves so that we become even more suitable for our partner. We consider ourselves as a 'present' we are giving to our partner and want to give them the best version of ourselves.

Also love is when we care about others as much as ourselves and do everything possible, making self-sacrifices to prevent them from getting hurt even if it affects/compromises our own interests.

Relationships aren't about finding the best we can get, it's about finding the best person for us. A person who may not be as handsome, successful, smart etc but who'll stick with you is actually more valuable than an unreliable disloyal alpha man who frequently gives you insecurities and has potential to be infidel