The situation: I have an intense desire to share my wife with other men. Call it cuckolding, hotwifing, swinging, whatever. I’m just incredibly turned on by the idea of her fucking someone else with or without me involved. She’s known about it for years and we roleplay about it in bed sometimes. But lately she’s said she’s open to doing something - if the right situation just came along. So she doesn’t want to get on the apps or put herself out there like that. But a chance meeting? It’s a long shot, not gonna lie, but who knows what could happen. Looking for the exact right guy to meet her and catch her interest - and it has to seem natural.

About her: Thick and curvy Jewish brunette, dark hair. Think Kat Dennings’ face on Sixtine Rouyre’s body and you’re pretty close. She’s smart AF, arty. Was kinda a hipster in her youth. Progressive, feminist, sex positive. Absolutely killer in bed - she has perfect DSLs. Can be very adventurous sexually, but needs to get to know someone a bit first. She hasn’t had sex with anyone but me for the last 14 years.

Who I’m looking for: Guys 30ish - 50ish, any race. Could be local, or visiting sometime in the future. Build is flexible, but a Dad bod is more than welcome. Handsome helps, but honestly, more important than looks for her is your personality / interests. Kind, calm, and open minded a must. Would be good if your work/passion is something creative, brainy, or progressive. Artists (especially conceptual), musicians (especially experimental or heavy), activists, academics, designers all would make sense. Not a comprehensive list, just some first thoughts. Also, you need to be laid back and game to just give this a shot, and untroubled if nothing comes of it. Looking for a guy who is just curious about the situation. Lastly, this won’t matter unless you’ve already sealed the deal, but would be more exciting for everyone of you’re hung.

If you’re interested: DM me and start by telling me a favorite album or artist you like to put on while hooking up (not a test, no wrong answers, just making sure you read this). Tell me about yourself, why you’re interested, and why you’re the right guy for this. Include a safe for work pic if you’re comfortable doing so. And please ask any questions! I’ll respond to all thorough and thoughtful replies.