Hello! I’m a normal guy who’s seeking a potential ongoing arrangement with a local hotwife (swingers, cuckold couple, ENM couple, open marriage, whatever you’d like to call it). Nothing complicated or serious, just ongoing fun with someone who needs physical release. I’m not looking to replace your partner. I just enjoy kinky, intimate fun. I’ve done this sort of thing a bit in the past but those have always been one-time meetups, never anything ongoing. For safety and discretion I’d prefer something exclusive while we’re together, we wouldn’t see other people (outside of your partner of course) and we’d be able to trust each other. I’m tested and am disease free and clean. I can provide those results for proof before meeting up. You’d need to be clean as well. I haven’t been with anyone since being tested and would prefer the same from you, that way we can get up to all sorts of fun without worrying about the risks. I did have common cold sores once as a kid once but they’ve never come back. Just a heads up. Transference is possible but no past partners have ever gotten them.

In terms of who I’m looking for I’m pretty open. Women of any race or body. I like the idea of doing this with someone “normal” seeming, maybe the sort of suburban housewife you’d never expect top be into this sort of thing. I don’t mind an age difference. It’s more about making sure we have chemistry and are on the same page with everything. I’m a big pleaser and I’d want to make sure you feel good. I love kissing, cuddling, foreplay, and giving oral.

Unfortunately I cannot host regularly. You’d need to be able to host or we’d have to work out something else.

I’m in the northwest suburbs in the Chicago area in Illinois. I’m a 30 year old white male. I’m a redhead, 6’0” feet tall, and about 190lbs. Average body type. Not skinny, not fat, just average. I’m about 7 inches uncut and thick. I typically last a long time and can wear my partners out. I do not smoke or use drugs. I’m single, never married, and don’t have kids.

Feel free to ask me anything if you’re interested! In your message tell me a little bit about yourself and what all you have in mind. Some photos of yourself would be nice as well. The more descriptive you can be the better, I love discussing things in advance and planning everything out.