First off, my situation: My wife and I have an open marriage and we generally play separately. (She posts here too, as you may or may not have noticed. I can share her username if you ask nicely...if you're interested in playing with me. Single males should kindly leave me alone.) Since she travels frequently for work, our current rule is that we can only do things when we're not in the same metro area - or when she has something planned.
Anyhow, about me - you wouldn't know to look at me, since I present as a nerd who dresses preppy, but I'm active in the Chicago BDSM scene as a Dominant, which you can read more about in the pinned post on my profile. What you'd probably guess by looking at me is that I enjoy board games and drinking whiskey (preferably neat). I also enjoy podcasts, PC gaming (mostly 4X and CRPGs), and reading sci-fi/fantasy novels. I work in healthcare, so I have an irregular schedule - my "weekend" can happen anywhen during the week, and I generally have daytime availability as often as I'm available in the evening.
Physically, I'm 5'8", white, with short curly brown hair, grey eyes, fair skin, freckles, and glasses. I'm happy to share pics once you send me a message.
I'm looking for someone for casual fun, be it a ONS or, preferably, FWB/ongoing play partners - someone I can chat with about a mutual interest or three between rounds in the bedroom. Being kinky is a plus, but not required, as vanilla sex is fun too. I look forward to hearing from you!
P.S. We just moved from the South Side, so my place is a mess, but is available for hosting in a pinch. In the meanwhile, I'm happy to chat and maybe meetup elsewhere.
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