Are you tired of searching for someone who truly gets you, who understands what it means to connect deeply in a way that leaves you breathless? So am I. I’ve been here before, and I know what I want, and I’m not interested in settling for anything less than extraordinary.

I’m married, and I’m doing this outside of that. It’s not my first time navigating this dynamic, and while I value discretion, I’m comfortable in my situation. Ideally, you’re also married, so we both understand what’s at stake and can prioritize keeping things private. I’m not looking to change my home life, but I am looking to add something profound and exhilarating to it: a D/s relationship that fulfills us both.

For me, this isn’t just about dominance and submission; it’s about creating a bond that goes far beyond the surface. I want a sub who feels safe enough to surrender completely, someone who trusts me with their vulnerability. In return, I’ll cherish that trust and guide you with strength, compassion, and care. I’m not here to tear you down or play games, I want us to thrive together, to build something so powerful it becomes impossible to ignore.

This kind of connection doesn’t happen overnight, and I’m not rushing into anything. We’ll take the time to build trust and see if we’re truly compatible. Physical attraction matters, and I’m happy to exchange photos (disappearing pictures on Telegram work great), but this is about so much more than looks. Let’s figure out if we click emotionally and mentally before we even think about the physical.

I live around Chicago and I'd prefer that you're in the city or burbs. If we discover we’re the right fit, I’m open to meeting. I can make time to meet as I set my own hours with work.

Who I Am: I’m confident, successful, and deeply in tune with what I want. I know how to lead, and I take pride in guiding and supporting those I care for. I’m empathetic and patient but assertive when it matters. Physically, I’m tall, fit, and well-groomed, with dark hair, a great smile, and a focus on staying in shape. I bring intelligence, humor, and curiosity to the table, and I expect the same in return.

Who You Are: You’re strong-willed yet crave the balance and grounding a Dom can provide. Maybe you’re a little witty or bratty, and that’s fine, I enjoy a woman who can challenge me in the right ways. What matters most is your willingness to let go and trust once that bond is established.

I’m looking for someone intelligent, emotionally aware, and curious, a woman who values growth and wants to explore what’s possible in a D/s relationship. Physically, I appreciate someone who takes care of herself and knows how to carry herself with confidence. But more than anything, I’m drawn to the energy you bring and the connection we can create. I know she’s out there, the woman who’s ready to take this leap with me. If it’s you, let’s talk.