42 Straight Male, white, thin build, fit but not jacked. Long brown hair, 5' 10". If size matters to you at all I'm 7 to 7.25" x 6" girth

Know what I'm doing in the bedroom but I've also been intentionally single for four years while focusing on family and health so I'm looking to just get back into something fun and nothing serious.

Sex is great, but I love just general physical contact, hugs, chilling on the couch legs across each other etc. In the bedroom - long foreplay, love giving oral, very turned on by auditory stimulus (hearing her enjoy herself)

Looking for NSA safe sex in a situation that's comfortable and enjoyable to both of us. I can host about half the week. Not necessarily looking for monogamy but something a little more dedicated than just a ONS is ideal.

I'm in North Aurora, but work closer to the city and have my own transportation, Elgin, Batavia, Warrenville, Naperville, surrounding area whatever doesn't bother me, also willing to go farther for the right person.

Even down to have just a non sexual cuddle buddy, more than just on the couch, someone to fall asleep holding but doesn't have to mean sex, or open to anything in between that and full on FWB. Love the idea of a friend that's more than just a friend that includes some level of physical contact.

I love tabletop board games and video games when I have time, so someone that's into that kind of thing would be a huge plus. Love roller coasters and riding my bike in the forest preserve, you don't have to be an adrenaline junkie but it's cool if we can do something semi active as well.

Been mostly vanilla in my past experiences minus a MFF threesome FWB situation that was on/off for a few years, but am open to reasonable and descretely expanding some horizons. Have limits with some acts, but who doesn't

Not interested in other solo men, not actively looking for M/F couples, but may consider it in the right setting or the right couple. Age doesn't really matter to me much as long as you're a consenting adult but prefer someone /- 10 years (32-52 ish) anything outside of that starts to feel a little weird. Your race, and height don't matter, weight doesn't matter that much to me either, but prefer someone on average to curvy side.

I have some pics in my profile and am willing to trade verifiable face and/or more pics in DMs.

Message or chat welcome