We’re a couple of long-time best guy-friends looking for either the right person or (ideally) the right pair of best lady-friends who’d like to consider an ongoing modern group sex arrangement. We’re really looking for a pretty rare type of Fwb situation between 3-4 people here, with time and effort put in to establish mutual trust and attraction so that we can all play together… or in smaller groups/couplings worry-free, as needed, without having to only rely on just one other persons availability.

About us: We’re both tall (well over 6’), conventionally attractive guys, in good shape (active, hwp, strong), with blonde hair, short-medium facial hair, and blue eyes. With the fear of sounding vain, it’s safe to say that we’re by no means models, but we definitely aren’t strangers to attention either. Outside of the physical attributes, we’re both university-educated, successful professionals in our fields, socio-politically liberal, with outgoing, friendly, fun personalities. We’re both clean, hygienic, and very much disease-free guys (both regularly tested - no messing around with this) who take good care of ourselves overall. We’re not V-safe yet but actively working on that, so depending on if/when we finally connect, that may be done already. Also, as perhaps expected by our statures and in case you’re wondering, we’re both nicely hung with BWCs (one cut and one not - best of both worlds!)

How did we get here? Well, we’re hetero but we’ve known each another for a really long time (20 years), so the level of comfort and trust between us is very high. Over the years, we’ve lived together, heard/seen/walked-in-on each other having sex or masturbating, and we’re lucky to be able to talk freely and openly about these things and have mutually chosen to go on this adventure together. The thing we’ve realized about ourselves (as the primary impetus for this post), is that we both really enjoy giving pleasure just as much (if not more) than receiving it, and are excited to work together to give someone another level of that, hence why we’re looking for 1-2 reliable, ongoing, eager recipients. We’ve also had enough experience to know that we’d rather embark on this adventure with someone very much on the same page who’d also want to go all-in on an ongoing, mutual, trusting, and worry-free FWB arrangement/situationship like this.

Who are we looking for? This is usually the toughest part to put into text, so we’ll say that we’re overall pretty quite wide open in terms of age, race, status, physical attributes, etc., but we ask that you be a cisgender woman/women that’s open-minded, communicative, honest, and forthcoming about yourself, your thoughts, feelings, wants, likes, kinks, dislikes, turn-ons, turn-offs, worries, and/or limits. Please be tested and have reliable birth control because accidents happen and condoms aren’t super conducive to this type of scenario. We don’t mean to offend, but we do want to find someone who takes care of themselves as reasonably as we do. Again, we’re by no means ‘modelesque’ but we’re both active, fit, and work out regularly, so if you could possibly be described as ‘BBW’ then we probably won’t be super interested.

What are we looking for? An awesome, sex-positive adult friend group/pod to casually hang out with, that also tends to end up in a wonderfully wet and loud mess of 3-4 loving, trusting people all just equally losing themselves in every possible combination of each other. Firm grips, legs shaking, hair pulling, backs arching, eyes rolling, and juices flowing… this should be a fun escape and exploration that we all look forward to and eagerly plan together (or, eventually rely on to spontaneously see who’s up and available). We both love lingerie, heels, toys, and we’d love to make this an escape that just absolutely spoils everyone involved. Ideally, we’ll all be in a private chat together where we can talk, tease, and work ourselves up on a regular basis (we prefer the Signal or Telegram apps). We all have jobs and lives that we’d rather not disrupt or worry about interfering with, so discretion and trust in both directions is absolutely paramount.

We’ll save the rest for our conversations, but are eagerly awaiting your response (even if you just want to ask questions). Please know that while we’re open to a few other versions of the scenario that’s specifically called out in the title, the simplest way to weed out the things we’re not interested in exploring is to ask that you please not message us if you’re the owner of a penis, cool?

If this post is still up then we’re still looking.